To: Rexyf ...
Who was your Basic Training commander at Benning?
To: t'Sade ...
I think I know what you mean ... I happen to feel that whatever "higher power" there is wants us to grow up and be able to handle things on our own, rather than act like a bunch of babies. A certain amount of defiance and demanding of explanations is part of that, I think. After all, when was the last time you felt that "Because I said so" was an adequate justification for some dictat from your parents?
Luckily, I had a mom who always explained her reasons when I asked, and I always asked. The few times she used the "Because I said so" were always qualified by a "Ask me later". And she would give me reasons later, when time was not a factor. Most of the time, I was satisfied with her reasons.
Which didn't stop me from doing what I thought was best anyway.
Sometimes I was right.
Sometimes I wasn't.
Sigh!